oh well ... heh ... I do that too sometimes ... 
people all come here for different reasons Rhonda ... some to
socialize, some to work off some steam, some to seek affirmation
for themselves, whatever .... and the annonymity of the net has
different effect on different people ... we become bolder, more
caustic, more cutting ....
best thing to do ? ... relax .... words doesn't kill (note: works
both ways) .... life is good, eh ? ... 